“His Cold Feet” came to be: I was getting drilled
with questions, “When are you two getting married?”
“When’s the big day?” “Should I be
shopping for a dress?” All of which lead me to corner
my beau (now hubby) with questions like, “What are you
It wasn’t too long before I found
out that I wasn’t the only one dropping some not so
subtle hints. Not to mention all the obsessing wondering
if there’s a ring in the picture and all the minutes
used on the cell phone venting to the committee of girlfriends.
Whether from a friend, a colleague, or a person sitting
next to me in a restaurant, I kept hearing about what I
call 'pre-engagement limbo.’ No matter how common,
those going through it feel like they’re the only
ones. How could they not when save-the-date cards are filling
up the mailbox. There is a
common story of a woman who feels ready to get married before
her long-term boyfriend feels ready to pop the question.
Enter His Cold Feet.
The book, HIS COLD FEET: a guide for the woman who wants to tie the knot with the guy who wants to talk about it later (St. Martinís Press) is in stores now and available from on-line booksellers! Get your copy to find out:
- Advice on how to have “the talk”
- How to deal with the dreaded “When are you two getting married?”
- The scoop on ultimatums
- A man’s perspective on popping the question How to manage “pre-engagement limbo”
- How to find out what’s really behind his cold feet When to walk away And lots of other crucial, sanity-saving advice
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All the best,
Andrea Passman Candell